Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Rockstar?

    To begin, this is probably going to be the most serious posting you will ever hear from me in Rockstars.  For those of you awaiting my actual blog/novel, its being posted on my actual page in the AM, been writing on it all day and im tired, however because this particular page is suppose to be about having fun and getting to know each other so im leaving all mushiness and things not pertaining to Rockstars out of it, and I intend to see it that way.  Im not here to call out specific individuals, however I am going to probably speak of some things that might hit some of you personally, hell, I wrote about several things I was hit with personally, so there are no favorites, or pulling punches, its just gonna come out as is.  This is particularly for "Rockstars",. ..
     
    The thing is people, we can not change our genetic make-up.  Everyone single one of us is going to fuck up more than imaginable in our life-times.  If for any reason you think your immune to this in any way, go to your bathroom mirror and write "Im a douchebag" on the mirror 50 times, cus you are, I mean that with all my heart.  Now for those of you that are still reading, you apparently understand that we are all people, and we are all different people, which means we are all going to have our vices, makes our individual mistakes.  Not one of us is greater than another, or has "cooler" friends.  Your perception of yourself and that of your friends is exactly that, yours. 
     
    This being said,  watch what you people are putting into your bodies for fucks sake.  Ive watched several close friends lose their mind lately.  Ive seen some silly shit in my day and been apart of some too, but in particular more recently people seem to be melting down.  This is a trend for a reason people.  One instance got so bad my buddy jumped out of a window and dislocated his knee due to paranoia.  Is he still my buddy?  Yup love the guy still.  We laugh about it daily.  But he wasnt himself.  This shit is causing mass paranoia and lots of health issues all over.  All im gonna say without over running this subject is be careful, know what your doing. Your not plants people, its plant food.  
    
    Rockstars is not a median for you to talk to your ex-babygirl or babyboy.  If you have something to say to someone call them on the phone or go stalk them at their house like I do.  Dont post something on Rockstars trying to catch their friends cousins buddies attention hoping they caught the good word about your "post".  Seriously, I know its tough , I know its hard, if its that bad ill drive over there and give you a hug personally, perhaps we can work out a mutual agreement where we meet up for hugs twice a week to cry it out. But please dont post it on Rockstars.  We all have enough relationship problems, We dont need to live vicariously through yours.  
    
    Rockstars, this is one of my biggest problems,  what the fuck is up with all this aired dirty laundry?  Can I ask why anyone feels its necessary to put anyone on blast on facebook? Ive seen  this 10 times in the last 2 months... and Im gonna tell you right now.  Its NEVER OKAY to say hateful things about people over Facebook.  If you hate someone that much then dont speak to them.  All it tells people when you go out of your way to be bitter is that you still care in some way.  When you throw it out on facebook, your being trashy.  Why do you think anyone else needs to hear it?  Is your hate so deep that you have to scream it from the mountain tops?  Well great, you officially made everyone around you extra uncomfortable and selfishly put people that are friends with both parties in a position to take sides,  All for the glory of.....what?  I dont care how vindicated it makes you feel, its fucking lame.  I dont wanna hear about why you hate your old babygirl or babyboy and why you hate their little dog too...  Cant people just call up their best friend and bitch to them like the old days?  If you spew forth enough hate people will eventually begin to resent you regardless of being wrong or right.
   
    Rockstars dont beef with each other....  Sooooo he said this, and then she said that, but then he said to tell her shes a bitch, and then she got mad at his buddy and now thats why I wanna kick his ass.  Really?  Get over it.  We are all adults here, and unless your defending yourself or someone else, you have no reason to fight.  Not just other Rockstars but people in general as well.  Your gonna go through life with all types of issues with people.  People you dont know, and even worse, people you consider friends will throw you under the bus faster than you can say "Pickles".  No Really,  I tried to say pickles last time I got thrown under a bus and could only muster "Pi' before I was hit.  Honestly there are a couple heads I wanna smash right now but I know thats just not how men handle things ....and speaking of men, if you have a problem with something someone is doing or has done,  hit that person up, tell them your problem, figure out a resolution and solve it.  It might feel good to throw someone under the bus for your own special reasons, but in the long run, that burning bridge will collapse on your head, thats a guarantee.
       
    Lastly, Rockstars is not a self help group. " WORK HARD PLAY HARDER."  Thats the plan, thats the idea, thats the motto.  If you need help with something in your personal life, send your friend a message or text your buddy, Im sure if you ask nicely they will talk it out with you.  We dont need anyone dictating what is peaceful, what is spiritual, or what is happiness.  Let me tell you what.  Whats peaceful to me is different then most, I can promise you that, and im sure whats spiritual for some is different for all.  I see lots of people going through lots of changes in life, and Im really happy for you, Ive been doing the same.  Rockstars isnt the place to let everyone know.  


    Needless to say the group is about to undergo some changes,


    So Rockstars, lets have some fun, drink, be merry, I dont care what it takes, lets cut the bullshit and keep things friendly around here.  If you have an issue or something that needs to be addressed you can message me personally. If you see a rockstar downtown that you recognize walk up and say something, introduce yourself, buy them a drink.  Make friends and fucking Rage.  Thats what this is about.   


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